Assalamuallaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh. Ustadz, maaf bertanya.
Kamimenikah tiga tahun lalu kami menikah. Namun sebelumnya itukami beristigfar kepada Allah SWTpernah melakukan zina. Perbuatan itu kami lakukan beberapa kali sebelum pernikahan. Sekarang kami memiliki dua orang anak.
Kami pernah membaca beberapa referensi, bahwa pernikahan seperti ini dalam Islam tidak sah dan bahwa hal itu harus dibatalkan karena yang melakukan, dalam hal ini kami, tidak bertobat sebelum menikah. Namun, sekarang kami menyesali perbuatan zina itu.
Apa yang harus kami lakukan sekarang? Apakah kami harus membatalkan pernikahan kami sekarang dan kemudian mengulanginya tanpa perlu adanya iddah? Apakah kami bisa diampuni oleh Allah SWT karena ketidaktahuan kami?
Semua yang ingin kami lakukan sekarang ini adalah menjalani kehidupan pernikahan bersih yang menyenangkan untuk Allah. Sebelum hari pernikahan, saya mendapatkan menstruasi sekali jadi bisa dipastikan bahwa anak-anak kami dilahirkan ketika saya dan suami benar-benar sudah disatukan oleh akad. Terima kasih atas jawabannya.
Wassalam.
Assalamuallaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh.
Berikut adalah penjelasan yang kami kutip dari situsislamqa.ca.
Tidak boleh bagi laki-laki pezina menikah dengan wanita pezina sebelum mereka bertaubat. Berdasarkan firman Allah Taala.
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Laki-laki yang berzina tidak mengawini melainkan perempuan yang berzina, atau perempuan yang musyrik; dan perempuan yang berzina tidak dikawini melainkan oleh laki-laki yang berzina atau laki-laki musyrik, dan yang demikian itu diharamkan atas oran-orang yang mukmin. (QS. An-Nur: 3)
Ulama kalangan mazhab Hambali berpendapat bahwa pernikahan wanita pezina yang belum bertaubat tidak sah. Mereka tidak menjadikan taubatnya pezina laki-laki sebagai syarat sahnya pernikahan. (Al-Inshaf, 8/132, Kasyaful Qana, 5/83).
Berdasarkan pendapat ini jika saudari telah bertaubat sebelum akad, maka nikahnya sah. Tapi kalau tidak (belum bertaubat) maka sikap yang lebih hati-hati adalah memperbarui akad.
Taubat dapat terwujud dengan penyesalan dan berjanji tidak mengulangi perbuatan maksiat. Apabila anda telah menyesali terjadinya perbuatan haram tersebut dan bertekad untuk meninggalkannya, kemudian anda melakukan pernikahan, maka itulah taubat anda.
Adapun masalah terbebasnya rahim dan iddah, ini adalah perkara yang diperdebatkan para ulama. Ulama mazhab Hanafi dan Syafii berpendapat bahwa hal tersebut tidak diharuskan.
Yang kami nasehatkan adalah bahwa apabila memungkinkan bagi kalian berdua adalah memperbarui akad tanpa memberitahu wali tentang hakikat perkara. Itulah yang hati-hati.
Tata cara akadnya adalah, wali anda berkata kepada suami anda di hadapan dua orang saksi, Aku nikahkan engkau dengan puteriku, atau saudara perempuanku, yaitu saudari Kemudian suami anda berkata, Aku terima.
Jika tidak memungkinkan memperbarui akad kecuali dengan memberitahu telah terjadinya hubungan haram, kami berharap tidak ada kewajiban apa-apa bagi kalian berdua tetap dengan pernikahan sebelumnya berdasarkan pendapat jumhur ulama yang berpendapat sahnya pernikahan seperti itu.
Kami mohon kepada Allah Taala semoga Dia memperbaiki keadaan kalian berdua dan menerima taubat kalian.
Allahu alam. Allah tahu yang terbaik
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Forex is the most liquid market in the world, and operates round the clock. It is a market where currency pairs are bought and sold in order to benefit from favorable exchange rate movements. Forex signals refer to the various indicators used by forex traders in order to identify the appropriate time for buying and selling currencies. A forex trader uses both fundamental and technical analysis in order to decide whether or not to trade. Fundamental analysis is based on economic factors that have a direct impact on the exchange rate. Technical analysis involves studying trends and patterns in order to decide on the prudence of a trade. Forex signals help the trader reach a decision, on whether or not to execute a trade, by giving the trader an indication or signal about expected currency pair movements.
Types of Forex Signals
Technical analysis relies on accurate signals that are provided by chart indicators. In order to understand indicators, we need to understand the different types of charts. These charts can be classified as line charts, bar charts, and candlestick charts. Indicators can be classified into two categories: Leading and Lagging. Leading and lagging indicators are economic factors that can be quantified.
Leading Indicators
Leading indicators provide a signal before a change occurs in the movement of currency pairs. In other words, they prepare a trader to spot a trend before a reversal is visible. This would help a smart trader benefit by buying low and selling high. Oscillators are leading indicators. Simply stated, an oscillator is a pendulum which swings between two extremes; buy and sell. The only time the oscillator does not give an accurate signal, is when it is not positioned at one of the extremes. Parabolic Stop and Reversal, Relative Strength Index, and Stochastics are examples of oscillators. Parabolic Stop and Reversal (SAR) helps a trader identify bullish and bearish trends. Relative Strength Index (RSI) and Stochastics, on the other hand, indicate oversold and overbought market conditions. When the market is oversold, one should buy. When the market is overbought, one should sell. Parabolic SAR uses dots on the candlestick chart in order to indicate shifting trends. When the trend shifts from an uptrend to a downtrend, the dots shift from below the chart to above the chart. Stochastics use red dotted lines to indicate overbought conditions, and blue dotted lines to indicate oversold conditions. If a chart has been indicating oversold conditions for a certain length of time, one can expect an increase in prices in the future.
Lagging Indicators
Lagging indicators give an indication of the change in trend, after the change is clearly visible. This is helpful for people who are unable to spot the evident change. In other words, a lagging indicator is a wake up call to move with the market and make hay while the sun shines. Lagging indicators never give wrong signals, since the change has already occurred before it is communicated to the trader. Momentum indicators are lagging indicators.
Depending on the kind of market, people have to decide between leading and lagging indicators since the signals are generally conflicting. This brings us to the importance of accurate forex signals.
How to Find Profitable Forex Signals
It's evident that a number of chart indicators need to be interpreted for ensuring profitable forex trades. Thankfully, there are forex signal systems, based on chart indicators and economic events, that indicate when a trader should buy and sell. These signals are available for free or at a reasonable cost. A forex signal system, that provides accurate and profitable forex signals, can be manual or automated. Mechanical forex signal systems would require the trader to be present in order to buy and sell. A fully automated system, on the other hand, would not require the trader's presence in order to execute trades.
A good trader can use his technical and fundamental analysis skills and outperform any forex signal system. However, a forex mechanical system is useful for a trader who is not comfortable with interpreting charts, while a fully automated system is useful for a trader who despite being told when to execute the trade, may not do so, because of hesitation and lack of confidence.
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